May 26, 2014

Love, Relationship, Marriage & Adultery in the bible


 
I'm going to talk about what is says in the bible about love, dating and relationships. Today a lot of relationships end because no one is in the mind of it's worth fighting for anymore. Marriage is just something people do these days and then when something goes wrong they want to split and divorce and in the eyes of God that is wrong and I will so you all the verses that says so.

I have loved myself and have been in relationships and they ended, but the ones I was in weren't Christians, they were non-believers in Jesus Christ and so since I made the choice to not date another non-believer because they don't want the same things I want, they don't have those values and morals that I have. I did find this one guy and we dated a few times and one big event changed that all together and I really liked this guy but because of his differences and non- acceptance of my life and family it drove us apart, have we had tried harder and maybe had more patients then I think we could have worked things out.

No one ever said Love in general is easy, it's hard, it's something you have to want, and work for everyday of your life. When one loses love it hurts worse than anything and from that it's hard to learn to love again but it's not impossible because when you put your love and faith into God he shows and helps you to know love again by his love for you so that you can find love in another person again. When one man makes that choice to get down on his knee and ask the one he loves to marry him and she says yes they just vowed to be together until Death Do Them Apart, In Sickness & In Heath, For Better Or Worse they vowed forever to be their for one another but today many marriage fail, they aren't honored by those vows they said and made to one another. but in the eyes of God they will always be married. The flesh may have failed but the Soul lasts forever.

In the Bible it talks about cheating, and what we do that is considered adultery, even just lusting at and about someone is considered adultery which is a sin. All people do it but it's a matter of turning from that sin and not do it again. So when a married man or woman looks at another person in that way they just cheated on their partner, it's the same for those that are just now dating or that have been in a long term relationship.

People that walk from a marriage and marry another man with the same agenda referring to the man or woman having the same flaws, miss fortune is a case of repeating the same action the difference is it's just a different man just with the same bad habits. Woman have this habit of being with the naughty guys that do cheat, watch porn, and lust after other woman and even Men have this habit. When they keep repeating the same act of the men they look for they will always look for the bad ones instead of finding the right one, they feel that is all they are worth having. That there is no good guy out there that would want them or love them but truly there is they just haven't looked hard enough they just settle for who ever comes their way.

Dating, Relationships & Marriage there is values & morals that need to be held up but there not. So I want to share these verses with you all about love dating, marriage, and cheating.

Marriage biblical verses-
Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.  The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, ' for she was taken out of man."  For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.  A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.
A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
 
Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
Many a man claims to have unfailing love, but a faithful man who can find?  The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him.
 
"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:  the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a maiden.
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
 
If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married.
"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'  and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh' ?  So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.  But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.  The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.  The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.  Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.  I say this as a concession, not as a command.  I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.  Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.  But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.  To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.  But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.  To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.  And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.  For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.  But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.  How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.  Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.  Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you."  So we say with confidence, "The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?"  Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.'  'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,  and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one.  Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.  For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.  Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.  Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her  to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,  and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.  In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.  After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church--  for we are members of his body.  "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."  This is a profound mystery--but I am talking about Christ and the church.  However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
 
Love & Relationships in the Bible-
 
The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these."
 
Do to others as you would have them do to you.
 
But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.
 
The Pharisees challenged him, "Here you are, appearing as your own witness; your testimony is not valid."
 
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.
 
Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
 
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
 
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
 
Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
 
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.  We love because he first loved us.
 
Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
 
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
 
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
 
And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
 
Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.
 
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
 
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.  If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him?  Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.
 
Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
 
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
 
I love you, O LORD, my strength.
 
Finally, the woman died.  Now then, at the resurrection, whose wife will she be of the seven, since all of them were married to her?"  Jesus replied, "You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God.
 
And now, O Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you but to fear the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul,  and to observe the Lord's commands and decrees that I am giving you today for your own good?  To the LORD your God belong the heavens, even the highest heavens, the earth and everything in it.  Yet the LORD set his affection on your forefathers and loved them, and he chose you, their descendants, above all the nations, as it is today.  Circumcise your hearts, therefore, and do not be stiff-necked any longer.  For the LORD your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great God, mighty and awesome, who shows no partiality and accepts no bribes.  He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the alien, giving him food and clothing.  And you are to love those who are aliens, for you yourselves were aliens in Egypt.
 
So if you faithfully obey the commands I am giving you today--to love the LORD your God and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul--  then I will send rain on your land in its season, both autumn and spring rains, so that you may gather in your grain, new wine and oil.  I will provide grass in the fields for your cattle, and you will eat and be satisfied.  Be careful, or you will be enticed to turn away and worship other gods and bow down to them.  Then the Lord's anger will burn against you, and he will shut the heavens so that it will not rain and the ground will yield no produce, and you will soon perish from the good land the LORD is giving you.  Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.  Write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates,  so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land that the LORD swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth.  If you carefully observe all these commands I am giving you to follow--to love the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways and to hold fast to him
 
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.  Who is this coming up from the desert leaning on her lover? Under the apple tree I roused you; there your mother conceived you, there she who was in labor gave you birth.  Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.  Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away. If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned.  We have a young sister, and her breasts are not yet grown. What shall we do for our sister for the day she is spoken for?
 
"No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.
Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'  This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'

Matthew 19:9 - And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committed adultery: and whoso married her which is put away doth commit adultery.

Proverbs 6:32 - [But] whoso committed adultery with a woman lacked understanding: he [that] death it destroyer his own soul.

Matthew 5:32 - But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, cause her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committed adultery.

Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putted away his wife, and married another, committed adultery: and whosoever marries her that is put away from [her] husband committed adultery.

Leviticus 20:10 - And the man that committed adultery with [another] man's wife, [even he] that committed adultery with his neighbor's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.

1 Corinthians 7:12 - But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believed not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband so long as he lived; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of [her] husband.

Matthew 5:31-32 - It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:

Malachi 2:16 - For the LORD, the God of Israel says, That  he hates divorce: for [one] covered violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

Deuteronomy 24:1-4 - When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give [it] in her hand, and send her out of his house.   

Galatians 5:19 - Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are [these]; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,

1 Corinthians 7:15 - But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such [cases]: but God hath called us to peace.

1 Corinthians 7:11 - But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to [her] husband: and let not the husband put away [his] wife.

1 Corinthians 7:1-40 - Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: [It is] good for a man not to touch a woman.   

Romans 7:3 - So then if, while [her] husband live, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.

Mark 10:11-12 - And he said unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committed adultery against her.

Mark 10:2 - And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away [his] wife? tempting him.

Matthew 5:31 - It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:

Matthew 5:27-28 - Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:   

Exodus 20:14 - Thou shalt not commit adultery.

Ephesians 5:33 - Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.

1 Corinthians 7:10 - And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband:

Matthew 19:3-9 - The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?   

Deuteronomy 24:1-22 - When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give [it] in her hand, and send her out of his house.

Genesis 2:24 - Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Jude 1:7 - Even as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.

Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Hebrews 10:19-20 - Having therefore, brethren, boldness to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus,   

Titus 1:6 - If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.

Ephesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

Ephesians 4:32 - And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

Acts 15:29 - That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well.

Acts 2:38 - Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.

John 1:1 - In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

Luke 14:26 - If any [man] come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

Luke 11:4 - And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.

Mark 10:12 - And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committed adultery.

Mark 10:11 - And he said unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committed adultery against her.

Mark 10:2-12 - And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away [his] wife? tempting him.   

Matthew 19:4-6 - And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made [them] at the beginning made them male and female,    

Matthew 19:3 - The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

Matthew 19:1 - And it came to pass, [that] when Jesus had finished these sayings, he departed from Galilee, and came into the coasts of Judea beyond Jordan;

Hosea 2:1 - Say ye unto your brethren, Ami; and to your sisters, Rama.

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